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Posts By: Kathleen Palmer

Patience With a Side of Pancakes

At age 53 I became a waitress … once again.  It had been thirty years since I laced up those sexy (anti-slip) black shoes, tied a polyester apron around my waist, and hoisted a tray of pancakes over my shoulder.

Why now?

I’m fortunate to have a portable career as a high school teacher, but we moved here during the height of the pandemic, and schools in this area were only offering virtual classes. For me, teaching is a contact sport, so I decided to wait it out.  My daughter came home from  her job at a local diner and asked if I could help out because the diner was struggling to find staff. 

The Self-Care Conundrum

I am not sure if you share the same loathing I do when I hear the term “self-care”.

It is right up there with the word “resilience”. I know the two terms are necessary and I know they are a part of our modern, military vernacular. Yet, I just can’t get past the irritation that I feel when someone asks me,  “Are you taking time for self-care?”

What does self-care look like to a weathered military spouse? (Sorry, not loving the term “seasoned” right now  either).

75 Reasons to Quit

75 Reasons to Quit

Everyone has that one friend. The one that you just can’t say no to, the one who doesn’t know any reasons to quit. They talk you into fun runs or volunteering for crazy events and every once in while…

…they get you to do something exciting, challenging, or just plain stupid.

Enter the 75 Hard Challenge.

For 20 Years

For 20 Years

For 2o years, we watched them go. 

They were proud to be American service members,

And we were proud to love them.

Our Nation stood proud as they went to avenge the attack on our soil.

We hung yellow ribbons, sang anthems, and waved flags…

Sam Says “See You Later”: Chapter 2

Sam Says “See You Later”: Chapter 2

  Editor's Note: Before you read "Chapter 2," get caught up on the previous part of the story.  Sam sat anxiously on the gym floor trying to disguise what she was feeling inside. She was nervous, she was tired, and she was slightly resentful. She felt like things...

Sam Says, “See You Later”  

Sam Says, “See You Later”  

If Sam heard her mom give one more “Pollyanna” speech about how lucky she was to be a military kid, she was seriously going to vomit. That feeling also rang true for the word resilient. Message received!

Sam, like so many other military kids got it. They understood the drill. They move every two years, they have to make friends quickly, they are flexible and adaptable, yadda, yadda, yadda. 

They were just words.

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