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Memorial Day: Is it Happy or Not?

Memorial Day: Is it Happy or Not?

Over the years, the meaning of Memorial Day has changed for me. Typically, in my early 20’s, Memorial Day was a day that commemorated the beginning of summer. I would spend the whole weekend at the beach with friends enjoying the sunshine. To me, during that season of life, it was “Happy Memorial Day.” I knew nothing different. I was uneducated on the true meaning of Memorial Day.

On “holidays” like Veterans Day, Armed Forces Day, and Memorial Day, I always see a meme on Facebook or Instagram explaining the difference between the three. This meme can be perceived in different ways.

The Unwelcome Visitors

The Unwelcome Visitors

I have these annoying visitors that pop in occasionally. They’ve randomly shown up for the last 2.5 years and seem to do so at the most inopportune time. Before you think I am a terrible friend, I’m not talking about actual people.

I’m talking about anxiety and panic attacks.

Have you ever been tortured by those two? I had never dealt with them before in my life. I did have some interaction with them equally as the annoying cousin known as postpartum depression after having both my boys, but never anxiety or panic attacks.

Until one morning in November 2018.

Using School Cancellation to Teach Different Curriculum

Using School Cancellation to Teach Different Curriculum

In many parts of the country and world, even on military installations, school is closed and likely to be closed for the rest of the school year. Parents and teachers are rightfully concerned that this will lead to a significant regression in learning, resulting in lowered scores on state standardized tests.

However, having kids at home, and for many of you that are now homebound as well, “no school” creates opportunities for enhanced learning, teaching kids things that are not typically taught in school, lifetime lessons and values that will endure long after memorizing multiplication tables.

Now is a good time to teach kids how to set a table. In fact, it is a good time to use the table for family meals and conversation (half of all American families don’t eat meals together). 

Ode to the Military Spouse

Ode to the Military Spouse

No oath is recited or spoken

No ceremony for swearing in

Just a passionate and resolute spirit

When the military spouse journey begins

Independent, but always loyal

With an adventurous, adaptable soul

Fear may shake them to their core

But it only helps their courage to grow

Thank You, Mom

Thank You, Mom

Dear, Mom:

Mom, we talk nearly daily despite the time difference, and you are always there to pick up the phone. I don’t think I have actually ever told you what you mean to me, so I would like to say thank you. And since I can’t be with you in person, I hope my words can be enough for now.

Resilient. Strong. Brave: Our Military Children

Resilient. Strong. Brave: Our Military Children

My sweet children had no choice. They were born into this wild, amazing, adventure called the Army life, and they haven’t known any different. Their little 13 -and 10-year-old lives are filled with many moves, unwanted change, tearful goodbyes, joyful reunions, a keen ability to adapt, lots of experience at new-friend-making, and a unique appreciation for “family time.” 

Like many of us, their Army life has been comprised of some really high highs and really low lows.

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