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Check Your Marriage Thermostat

by | Sep 6, 2015

I am blessed that my wife, Joy, the “joy” of my life, supports me in my crazy athletic endeavors. Today, I am in Myrtle Beach with almost 3,400 of my “closest friends” to play in a week long golf tournament. I’ve been doing this for most of the last 15 years, and I’ve developed some great relationships with a number of the players from around the country.

Usually, a small group of us rent a condo together and share expenses. We also share meals, talk trash about each other’s golf games, and make random wagers on our golf skills, or lack thereof.

This year, I was the first to arrive from our group. After calling my wife to let her know that I had gotten here safely, I got the guys and myself checked in with the management company. Next on the list was getting checked in for the tournament, shopping for some supplies, and opening the condo. I carried in my golf clubs, grocery bags, and luggage and went to the sink to wash my hands.

We had no hot water.

Starting Your MyCAA Application

Starting Your MyCAA Application

by | Aug 23, 2015

The MyCAA program provides eligible military spouses up to $4,000 to help them pursue a license, certification, or associate’s degree. If you qualify and plan to take advantage of this opportunity to further your education and career, then take a look at the first few steps to starting your MyCAA application.

Don’t Be the “But” in Your Marriage

Don’t Be the “But” in Your Marriage

by | Aug 8, 2015

There is a particular word that often comes up in the normal course of conversation. It usually goes something like this:

Your boss says, “You did really well on that project, but…”
Your dental hygenist says, “You’re doing a good job on flossing, but…”
A co-worker says, “I appreciate your input on this, but…”
What happens in your mind when the person, normally after a brief thoughtful pause, says that little word before they say anything else?

I think that color looks great on you, but…

I appreciate how well you’ve been sticking to our budget, but…

I really loved dinner tonight, but…

At first you feel good and affirmed, and you’re soaking up the praise. You’re happy about what is being said and considering how you are going to respond. And then after the pause you hear it.

MyCAA: Approved Ways of Using Your Scholarship Funds

MyCAA: Approved Ways of Using Your Scholarship Funds

by | Aug 2, 2015

Through the MyCAA program, eligible military spouses can receive up to $4,000 to further their education. After determining whether or not you qualify, you need to find out what you can actually do with these funds. So what studies or programs are actually covered by MyCAA?

How Do I Teach My Teen Good Money Habits?

How Do I Teach My Teen Good Money Habits?

by | Jul 26, 2015

One of the main goals of a parent is to prepare your children for adulthood.

To that end, few lessons are as useful as learning how to handle money. Many of us learned those lessons the hard way. By educating your teens on family finances, you can pave the way for their success.

5 Tips for Better Discussions

5 Tips for Better Discussions

by | Jul 5, 2015

A couple of weeks ago my bride and I had a “discussion.” The project I had been planning was due, and I was running around at the last minute trying to gather all the things I needed. It went something like this:

Mission: Milspouse is a
501(c)3 nonprofit organization.

EIN Number: 88-1604492

Donate

Contact:

hello@missionmilspouse.org

P.O. Box 641341
El Paso, TX 79904

 

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