Join us for a show with author LT Lee and his spuse as we talk about their experiences and the book “Back From War”. Field Problem’s Resource of the Week: CamoSock. AWTR Mess Hall.
deployment
No, I’m Not Okay, Thank You Very Much
After about six years of being a milspouse, I just realized something today.
I don’t have to be okay.
This for me was a huge epiphany. My husband deployed in January, and I’ve been striving since then to carry on. You know, pay the bills, keep the house maintained, keep the yard neat, the vehicles maintained, nurture and teach our sons—and smile.
The Writing On The Wall
As I go about my day, I find comfort in my home, for my home is a connection to my husband. Yes, it is where my computer is, so I have my literal connection to my husband, but just as important are all the memories and reminders of him—us—that fill its walls and surround me.
A Brief Exchange; A Deep Connection
Today, my sons and I went to the airport. My oldest was flying out to visit with family for a month. As we parked in the airport parking lot, we all noticed a soldier and his family. My sons were captivated.
“Look a soldier!” my 8 year old shouted.
“He looks like Dad!” my 10 year old added.
“Daddy!” my 2 year old cried.
“I bet he is on leave,” my 16 year old said.
We’re stationed at Fort Stewart. We see soldiers in and around post almost daily. Still, though, it is never “old hat” to my boys.
Footsteps at the Door
This poem beautifully depicts the myriad emotions that go along with being a milspouse.
The Breaking Point
Today we reached a breaking point.
First, let me say that I don’t normally blog about all this personal stuff because, quite frankly, it puts me in a very vulnerable position. I mean, I’m supposed to help you, right? Then, I think that if you know you aren’t alone and that other spouses go through the same thing, you’ll share, too, and we’ll all be stronger because we know there are others like us out there.
Simple Joys
Last week, after hanging up the phone from a 15-minute MWR call with my service member, it dawned on me that he has missed most of Wrena’s life and is about to miss a good chunk of Chloe’s.
I sat there crying.
AWTR Show #101: Deployment with Elaine Dumler
Join us for a discussion on deployment with my favorite guest and author Elaine Dumler. We’ll share awesome ideas for staying connected! Resource Guest: Thena Smith of Military Moments
Pop-Tarts, Crocs, and Sweaty, Holey T-Shirts
No, this isn’t my Christmas list!
It’s the little things—the little things that make me miss him most.
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