I would say that for the most part, I am a pretty optimistic, positive person with an attitude for gratitude.
But honestly, I have my days where that is so not the case.
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I would say that for the most part, I am a pretty optimistic, positive person with an attitude for gratitude.
But honestly, I have my days where that is so not the case.
I was extremely lucky for the past six months because the Army pretty much gave me uninterrupted time with my service member. With the exception of two small, week-long TDYs, we’ve been inseparable. It’s actually the most time we’ve ever spent together, and it has been awesome.
Well, it has been a month. A month of sleeping on my own, a month of taking care of the house and family on my own, a month since my service member left for a year-long hardship tour to Korea. I know many spouses have gone on this same journey, and I have wonderful friends who have given me great details of what to expect from a hardship tour.
I’ve been in a funk. A slump. A professional job pitfall. I’ve applied to more than 150 jobs in a year. I’ve interviewed a handful of times. No second interviews. No offers.
I remember one time, sitting outside, having my weekly wine with my neighbor, when we started a discussion about her new-found “job” as a battalion commander’s spouse. She was sharing how she felt blessed that she had such great friends and neighbors (battle buddies) because she is feeling a bit “lost in the sauce” when it comes to meeting all of the expectations and answering all of the questions that have come along with her role in her husband’s new position.
You may be thinking, “’Find the magic?’ Magic is for kids.”
I say you are wrong!
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